Sex Needs Sexy Lingerie

Erotic lingerie, garters, shiny boots, sexy costumes. It all belongs to sex, it is certainly a beautiful variety, but what if it can’t? And it at all? It is normal when a man is unable to make love without such a stimulus? His partner should not be like he should be in, or in your pajamas?

The 25-year it initially liked Alice. Her friend had bought all sorts of Erotic lingerie, garters, brassieres, corsets and sexy boots on stilettos. “I liked how he was kidnapped from me always, as he bluntly, he likes me, that I am a sexy and so on,” says Alena. After some time she realized that never actually slept together, without the stimulus, in the form of erotic costume and so on. “I think as I was in love with, so I was blind. Up to now, I’m sorry, we don’t have one of those spontaneous spontaneous sex, when he comes in from work, pull me away from the stove, sweeps away from me an apron a grubby from the dough and we have sex is to be on the floor, “says Alena.

But it never occurred to her partner, and when directly him to Alena said, she got an unexpected response. “They said it was not, they say, it’s very exciting, so lingerie that sex without it, for it has no meaning,” describes how to Alena that already begins with the mind and how much money is this fondness for her partner. “Aside from the money, but not negligible, it’s really a lot of annoying sometimes. If we go on holiday, so I have to bring with you a few of these outfits to carry, otherwise it would have been a holiday without sex. And, in addition, that offends me a little without garters for him I’m not sexy enough, pretty enough, and so on, “says Alena.

But experts argue that it is a little bit different. Alenin friend suffering from sexual deviation is called fetishism.

It’s not his or her fault

Reflection over why it is not enough to be just in a plain sexy vytahaném the shirt, are unnecessary. “Fetishism is sexual deviance, which is a living object of sexual desire vytěsněn inanimate object. Lingerie and shoes with heels is one of the most common fetišům,”explains Petr Weiss sexologist.

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Then there are fetishists who handle sex, even without the support of incentives, but most seriously need it. “For many fetišistů is the presence of fetishes, such as erotic underwear, sexual excitement, so love is possible only when the fetish is,” explains Peter Weiss.

Treatment? Oh, no!

Unfortunately with this but I can’t do anything about it, the only option is to accept. Fetišišmu you cannot get rid of, there is no treatment, and so on! “With the deviation with the birth, but i’ll die,” confirms Peter Weiss. According to him, the ideal situation is when the female partner with such a State of living, your partner responds to and incorporated into his fetish of their normal sexual activity. “In this case, I can imagine that such a relationship may quite normally and well work,” says Peter Weiss. But if the partner has not been able to, is probably the only chance a breakup. Because the relationship without a satisfied sex life is basically impossible.

The fact is that lingerie and stilettos to sexual life can be incorporated. It is worse but for other subsets of fetishism, which is an object of sexual desire to be animals (zoophilia), fire (pyrofilie), or even dead (necrophilia). After all, look at 8 nejdivnějších sexual deviations. You will not believe!.